Help wih wing-man

I put a fighter bay into 1 of my ship and got it to lauch fighter when I want. However I can not get it to work like 1 of the ingame fighter now act like wing-man. They will follow, formate with me and defend me whenever they feel like it.
I had try everything I can think of and still no such luck on my part. I hack into the wingman in text and add in a few line, but that does not help.

I am stuck here and could use some tip
Well I make a new T-figher out of the old 1 and remane it to Wolfie-figher for the lack of a better name.
This is what my contact list look like

xxxxx FIGHTER 260m SHIP_TYPE_TURRET_FIGHTER
xxxxx FIGHTER 361m SHIP_TYPE_TURRET_FIGHTER
xxxxx FIGHTER 595m LORI
xxxxx FIGHTER 670m AX
UTIL 20.6K MINE LAYER
WAYPT 21.6K WINGMEN TRAINING GROUND

You need to use POG to add these fighters to your list of wingmen. Then they will obey your commands.

Do you know how to write C or Java?

sorry not a clue there.
I may be able to work it out if I have a clue on how to write it.